Showing posts with label Jesse Mae [Shoemaker] Drinkwater. Show all posts
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Monday, May 23, 2016

my father-in-law, Oliver Elza Drinkwater

"Oliver Elza Drinkwater, husband of Anna [Geary] Drinkwater, father of Minor Earl.

"I knew him only 3 years after we were married.  He was a small, bright-eyed man who missed little that went on.  Very percetive [sic] where the rest of family laughed at the ignorant little city girl my husband had married.  He slipped in many a time & showed me how to build a fire, milk a cow, slop a hog & stay safely away from her.  I learned to love him very much in those 3 years.  

"Two years after we were married he started having strokes.  I can never forget the last, was Thanksgiving day.  He tried to walk to table & started to fall.  Was his last walk.  He was bed-fast from then on & lingered till Jan of 1926.  There were few tears when he went.  Everyone was so relieved his suffering was over.

"He was a farmer and much respected in the community.  He died many years ago.  But he's still remembered."

-- Jessie S. Drinkwater


Monday, December 1, 2014

A Needels Family History & its Custodians

There is a Needels family history book titled




Record of the 
Man, Needles, (Nedels) and Hambleton Families; 
with Others Affiliated Thereunto.
A.D. 1495 to A.D. 1876., et. seq.
Revised, Enlarged, and the Modern Records Corrected 
by Samuel Hambleton Needles.
January 1st, 1876. 
Philadelphia, U.S.A.
(124 pages plus index)


Custodians


I have digitized a photocopy of this book that I got from Grandma Jesse that was passed down through C.B. Needels and F.O. Needels.  You can see a pretty poor digitized version here.
C.B. began his custody as soon as the book was published.




Are these Needles Even Our People?

The final pages of the document reference communication with both Alexander Needels and C.B. Needels (his son).  Neither Alexander nor C.B. could prove the connection.



excerpt from page 124 (pictured above)


Alexander Needels of Sparta, Ohio, concludes in his letter of Dec. 22, 1875--"I have no doubt but we are of the same race, but likely will never be able to link it.  In another letter he states: "I have heard my father say, that after the death of my great-grandfather, William Needels, his widow (whether first or second wife, I know not) married a Harris, and had at least one son.  My grandfather, Thomas Needles, had two wives--the first was named White, who bore him one son, William.  His second wife was a Cubbage, who bore him five sons and five daughters, all of whom married and have families."  

C.B. Needels, of Sweet Home, Mo., under date of Jan. 4, 1876, writes: "I made some effort to obtain sufficient material to write a history of the family, but the records are so incomplete I gave it up.  I found the maiden names of all the women and the records of marriages neglected, but I am satisfied the William Needels you speak of is our legal ancestor, but by a second marriage.  My record gives the names of the parents of Thomas Needels, the second on our list, as William and Hannah, without the dates of their births.  According to your record of the birth of William, (March 12, 1697) if he was father of our Thomas, he was in his 42d year when the latter was born, (Nov. 2, 1738).***I will try to find out whether our William was married a second time."

         He appends the following list of his ancestors:

Your William,   son of John and Elizabeth (Man)                    born Mar. 12, 1697

Our Thomas,     son of William and Hanna (Hargrove*)         born Nov. 2, 1738
  "    George,     second son of Thomas and Sarah (Cubbage) born Aug. 5, 1773
  "    Alexander, son of George and Keziah (Jackson)*           born Mar. 6, 1797
  "    C.B.           son of Alexander and Elizabeth (Cubbage)   born Nov. 14, 1823
  "    Allen B.     son of C.B. and Catharine (Nedels)               born Dec. 30, 1853
*maiden names given in orange were written into the text by hand


Alexander Needels' Note in his copy of the book



Transcriptions are not my specialty, but I'll give this one a try:

April 24 A.D. 1876.  Try to write a few lines very hard for me to write with a pen.
I am born March 6 A.D. 1797 in Kent Co. Delaware State born to Christ in his kingdom March 3 A.D. 1821.  Married to Elizabeth Cubbage December 5 A.D. 1822.
I ___ in Ohio Morrow County near Sparta.  Am going to send this book ___ C.B. Needels my firstborn, he living in Missouri near Sweet Home, Nodaway Co.

Alexander Needels


My Copy


Apparently Alexander sent his brand new copy to C.B., who is listed as the first custodian.  F.O. Needels received the book from his father and had it until he passed in 1956.

At this point a copy or copies were made and it was a copy that came into Jesse's hands in 1965 and which she passed down to me.  I would be delighted to know where the original is.

For C.B. Needels' entries in the history, 1876-1904 see here.
[coming soon...]
For F.O. Needels' entries in the history, 1904-1956 see here.
For Jesse Drinkwater's entries, 1965-1982 see here.




Friday, November 28, 2014

A Chinese Wedding & A Chinese Wedding Dinner

These are two more writing assignments that Jesse completed for her writing class at LSU.

A Chinese Wedding


Having been in Singapore only a few months, we were very surprised to get a wedding invitation from our landlord’s son, as this was not the general rule on so short acquaintance.

Neither did we know their culture or customs.

After questioning many people, and getting no answers but a shrug and an “I do not know,” Phillip the grocery boy came to our rescue.  He told us, “Chinese women very vain, must look your best.  Get UMPAH envelope put money in for gift, must be given to groom at proper time.  Also must have escort.”  Here was a problem.  Our menfolk were working in Borneo.  We knew they had agencies there where you could rent an escort, but we were too new to the country and were afraid to try that.

We would not go to the wedding.  Groom and Bride go alone to temple very early morning, where priest marries them.  Then back to groom’s parents’ house, where both families have wedding breakfast.  A day of celebration for both families begin and last till late afternoon.

The bride’s parents then present her to the groom’s family, thereafter she belongs to her family no more.

Pink is the traditional wedding color, standing for happiness.  The groom cannot marry until he has enough money saved to pay for his wedding dinner.




A Chinese Wedding Dinner


We were ready to go, feeling we could compete with any Chinese women.  But no escort: what to do?

At seven p.m. sharp, a taxi arrived and two well-dressed young Chinese men, rang the bell.  They informed us Mr. Wong (bless him) had sent them as our escorts. Mr. Charlie Chan was mine.  Mr. Allen Chan was Faye’s.  They also said they had graduated from Oxford and were gentleman.  They were to explain the procedure to us.  We were to watch closely and do exactly as everyone else did.

They handed us into the taxi and we were off, excited and half scared, wondering how we would fare.  When we arrived, the gates were open.  We were greeted by the groom’s elder brother.  A waiter seated us at a table for ten, and gave each of us a cigarette.  Shortly another waiter brought a bowl of nuts and drinks.

A Canadian joined our table.  Charlie and Allen soon put us all at ease.  As we were munching nuts we started looking around.  We were seated in a large pavilion with a roof, from which hung Chinese lanterns, pink streamers and many-colored balloons.

There were tables as far as we could see.  I asked how many guests.  Charlie said about 2000.  There seemed to be people of all nations there.  Some in native dress but a surprising number in western clothes.  Caterers started wheeling food in.

We realized we had a very good table, and were told it was next to the Groom’s.  Back of their table was a Malaysian band which every few minutes struck up some American popular music.

At last the front door opened, and there stood the Groom and Bride shyly holding hands: everyone cheered. When they were seated, the door opened again.  A handsome couple (his parents), mother in black lace on her husband’s arm, next eldest brother and wife were seated, last their two children.  The bride was lovely in pink silk.

Then started the ten-course dinner.  First a salad, shrimp appetizer, small roast pig, shark fin soup, Peking duck, Chinese hamburger, baked angel fish, sweet and sour pork, fried rice, frozen fruit for desert.  It had taken two hours to serve this meal.  About midway through dinner the groom and bride rose and walked to a table near them.  Everyone at table stood up and sounds like a mournful howl filled the air, then everyone said “cheers,” drank a toast and the groom was given the red envelope. They bowed and passed on to the next table.  The bride was lovely, but got very little attention.

When they returned to their table they were exhausted.  The band started up some fast dance music and our escorts excused themselves to hunt a dance partner.  People started leaving.  Finally, it was decided we were to escort ourselves home.  As we were leaving here was a very proper receiving line: bride, groom, his father, mother, elder brother, and wife.  Each shook hands and thanked us for coming.  Slowly walking down the street we wondered if it was proper to be alone on streets at this hour.  We soon discovered many other women walking home alone.  A strange custom.  We had a good laugh after we were safely home.

We had learned much that night and a new respect for Chinese customs.  We had been to many wedding receptions, but never had we seen such precise catering or such a lavish dinner.  It had been a most enjoyable and enlightening evening.




I don't have any good images at the moment to include for this post, so I'll just add this clipping from Granny's scrapbook.


Wednesday, September 17, 2014

JESSE on her daddy CHARLES WESLEY SHOEMAKER

1931 Grandpa Charlie and Art

Charles Wesley Shoemaker


"He grew up as a farmer, but later turned to carpenter work.  He never made a great deal of money -- a hard luck story and he'd do a repair job for free.  Were times this made it hard on he and his family, but he was a much-loved man by all.  His great sense of humility and love of all men left its mark on many people.  He lived his life fully and honestly, with no claim to greatness.  But to those who loved him, that was his greatness.  From him I learned compassion for all people.

"They lived with us for 20 years.  My boys loved to hear his tall tales of when he was young, of which many, I am sure, were a figment of his imagination."




A box that Grandpa Charlie made
1943 C.W. Shoemaker in Bakertown




















Grandpa Shoemaker with Charlie
1951 Jakes Bayou
Grandpa Shoemaker with Charlie
1951 Jakes Bayou

panda, Gary, Grandpa Charlie
1952 Plaquemine

Grandpa Charlie, panda, Gary


horse, Gary, Grandpa Charlie, 1953 Plaquemine


VISIT from KANSAS RELATIVES ca1950

A visit from relatives to Plaquemine, Louisiana.  I'm certain one of these cousins is Joy!


Carrie & her cousin

Grandpa Charlie, Grandma Carrie, ___, Jesse, ___, M.E., Joy, Charlie

Grandpa Charlie, Grandma Carrie, Jesse, M.E., Gary

___, Jesse, Joy, ___

Monday, September 8, 2014

LAST MOVE, by Jesse Shoemaker Drinkwater

They had moved so many times.  At last it seemed they were settled.  Franklin had been their home for five years.  Wade, the fifth son, was born here.  Nice quiet southern town to finish raising the boys.  Jack, the eldest son, married at eighteen, knowing he would soon receive his letter from Uncle Sam.  It was a year coming.  At nineteen, he left a young wife and ten-day-old baby girl behind. 

Those were heart-breaking days, but all wars are so.  Six months later, he was home with a medical discharge.

Eighteen months later, Charles (second son), also married, received his letter.  Three month training at Camp Robinson, Arkansas.  Then off to Japan.  Fear for him walked with the family daily.

Then the war was over, and lumber was to be had.  They would build here and spend the rest of their lives.

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She awoke with the phone ringing with quick, urgent rings several times before she could reach it.  Fear that it might be from the war department went through her mind.

Such a relief when a voice said, “This is Doctor O’Neal your landlord and dentist.”  She must have forgotten an appointment.  Very bluntly he said, “I am selling the house you are renting: do you want to buy it?”

Without thinking how hard houses were to find, she said “no” and hung up the phone.

Looking at the house, there was really nothing wrong with it.  Just was not the house they had planned.  House sold at once of course.  Two months to find a place to live.  It turned into a real nightmare.  Every day they looked, nothing.  Then to the smaller towns close by.  Nothing, always the same answer.  When the war was over, everyone was building.

Time was getting short when the husband said with some hesitation, “I can look over where I am working.  Is about one hundred miles.  You will not like it.  Looks as though we may be compelled to take whatever we can find.”

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At last the call came, “I bought a house today.”   What a relief.  It is rundown but has possibilities, is three miles from town.  Arthur (fourteen) and Donald (eleven) were wild with joy.  They had never lived in the country.

Father said, “Jack and I will start cleaning the place up, after work nights.  I will get some of the furniture moved before you come.  Will make it easier on you and the old folks.”

We packed and waited.  When the truck came, the man in charge said, “Captain said bring all kitchen furniture.”  As they drove away, everyone looked in dismay at the completely empty kitchen.  Four adults, two boys, two babies to feed.

Soon a big truck came for the rest of the furniture, the men told us to take our time as they would place the furniture for us. 
We cleaned the house for the family that would move in that afternoon.  Grandfather had gone with the truck, anxious to see the new home.



Franklin, La. Main Street
Image courtesy of Wikimedia Commons
Ready to go at last, we were rather crowded, but the car was new.  Beautiful spring May day 31, 1946.  No air conditioning in those days.  Windows down, cool wind blowing in our faces, spirits rose, and soon all began to sing.

It was a rather pleasant journey until we drove into the town.  Railroad tracks down the middle of Main Street, stores on each side of the street somehow looked out of place.  Bayou ran through the edge of town, and stores were built along the bayou banks.  A strange looking town, must be very old.  A far cry from the tree lined boulevard that was the main street at Franklin.

Crossing the bayou bridge, driving several blocks, crossed a railroad track and started down a narrow winding gravel road.  A few small houses, then nothing but sugarcane for over a mile.  Then a Plantation store.  A few shacks with small black children playing on steps.  More sugarcane, like a wilderness.

The boys started bickering, the babies cried, the old Grandmother who had Parkinson’s started shaking so hard the woman wondered if she would live to the end of this move.

Suddenly they turned into a narrow drive lined with sycamore trees.  Front yard was so full of tall horse weeds, you would not have noticed the house in passing.  Boys stopped bickering, babies quieted. 
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Art, Faye, Denise & Suzonne in front of the house
in Plaquemine, circa 1959.
No one spoke, just looked.  A run down cypress house, on two acres of land.  In the midst of a cane field.  Quarters about a mile behind.  Weatherboarding falling off, no screens, rickety front steps to porch.  At last Jack looked back and said, “Sorry, Mom.  Was only place Dad could find.”  The woman shivered.  Of all the places, this was the most dreary and lonely she had ever seen.  She could hardly bring herself to believe her husband had bought it.  His judgment was usually so sound.

At last, Donald and his dog jumped from the car, up the steps to the edge of the porch. He looked up and said, “Mom, we have a magnolia tree, and it is blooming.”  The woman sighed and gave a slight smile, we might as well get out.  Carefully they walked up the steps, to the edge of the porch.  Sure enough, hidden by the weeds was a tall magnolia, in full bloom.  Everyone breathed in the sweet fragrance of the flowers.  Two boys raced into the house and as quickly out again.
Yelling, “Mom, come see we have a haunted house!”  Everyone went slowly inside.  Sure enough it looked quite eerie.  Paper put on years before over cheesecloth hung from the ceiling.  On the walls in spots as though something had played hide and seek along them were spots of paper.


Walking into the kitchen was a startling change.  The wainscoting was snow white, the woodwork pale green, new linoleum on floor.   All furniture in place.  Even the teakettle was on the stove.  A cold water faucet stuck out of the wall.
Where was the hot water heater, sink, cabinets?  None.  But the drains and toilet did work.  Also, the water from the faucet was like ice.

In the kitchen circa 1952.

The windows were open and a light breeze blew through. A wasp swung in and out one of the windows, as though questioning who had invaded his domain.

"Sit, Mother."  Gail, Jack, Jesse & Carrie (seated)
The woman pulled a rocker into the kitchen and said, “Sit, Mother.  It is more comfortable in here.  I will make some coffee."  Everyone else was looking here and there.  Quite a large house, rooms all large, ceilings all high, two fire places.  No closets.

The babies were playing contentedly on the cool floor.  The boys started arguing again.­

Waiting for the water to boil, the woman walked to the front porch, looked up a the magnolia again.  Tears suddenly rolled down her face, so tired and yet, must be thankful they had found a place to live.  But could they ever make this a place to be happy in?  Still looking at the tree, the beauty of its white fragrant flowers penetrated her whole being.  She wiped her eyes and spoke to the tree.  “Thank you for being here amidst all these weeds.  I promise we will make this house into a home you will be proud to shade.”

Walking back through the living room, looking at the paper hanging from the ceiling, she felt the house grab at her like a dirty child.  She wanted no part of it.  No choice.  Here they were and somehow would make the most of it.

Larry, Amanda & Faye in front of the fireplace, 1970.
Glancing at the fireplace, she saw through the dust and grime a thing that would be beautiful when cleaned.  Top of the mantel was carved cypress, with round post at outside edges.  In center a large beveled mirror.  Framework at bottom was cypress inlaid with pale green tile, as was the hearth.

She lifted her head.  With a  smile she went into the kitchen. Made coffee and served it, as though she were in exactly the one place she had always wanted to be.  Boys suddenly quiet, looked at her questioningly.  Grandmother smiled.  Daughter-in-law asked for the back bedroom as it was not so spooky.  Woman nodded her head, then spoke to the boys, “Don’t you think you best get to work on those weeds around our tree?  Surely you want everyone passing to see its beauty.” 

Father was much surprised to come home to a smiling family, filled with many suggestions of what could be done to the house.

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Thirty years have passed.  Magnolia can now be proud to shade the house.  A highway passes by, and when sometimes cars slow to admire the house, tree and peafowl strutting in the yard, our minds go back to that first May day we turned into the drive.  As the cars pick up speed, we smile.


--Jesse Shoemaker Drinkwater


for a writing class at LSU 1980, about the move to Plaquemine, Louisiana in May of 1946

Jesse, Linda, Gail, Jackie, David, Gary
Jesse & Faye, December 1955

Gary & Jesse






Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Captain Jack, Mr. Stall & early McDermott

This is how I remember the story (what did I get wrong?):

_______, Mr. Stall, and M.E. Drinkwater
M.E. Drinkwater & Albert H. Stall left Missouri (without their families) looking for work during the dust bowl and headed down to Texas. 

In Texas, they started a dredging company, clearing waterways with rented equipment.  Stall wanted to partner and get a loan to buy the equipment for $500, but M.E. wouldn't risk it.  Stall purchased the equipment and became the sole business owner with M.E. as an employee.  

Stall merged his company with McDermott at some point and expanded into Louisiana. He retired to New Orleans, uptown, and was always friendly with M.E. and his sons.


1932. Stall Merger with McDermott

According to the McDermott history page

1932*
Moved the (McDermott) company to Houston, Texas, with the continuing oil boom.
Provided different services to the oil industry through three McDermott family-owned businesses: J. Ray McDermott & Co., Elmax Construction, and Stall & McDermott.
*The merger may have been in or before 1932.
J. Ray McDermott owned a Cadillac dealership in Texas.  People will oil fields were all offshore.  To clear a right-of-way, clear & remove trees, you need wooden mats (12x12 pad/raft).  Cut the trees, put down mats to assist the vehicles doing removal.  Rental & sale of timber mats became a big business.  Ralph T. McDermott borrowed money to start a mat building & hauling (got the trucks cheap from his daddy) business.  Bought a dragline, boats, etc.  He named it after his dad bc his dad loaned him the money.
Al Stall was a land man.  (not a bayou man)  He & M.E. worked in Illinois/Iowa/Mo together clearing land.  Both dragline operators (on alternating shifts).  He came down south, M.E. ran out of work in the midwest.  Stall convince M.E. to come down & get an operators job (plenty of work).
They were working together.  They were getting more & more work: Stall bought a dragline & a bulldozer.  He owned it and hired someone to do the operator.  McDermott was coming east from Texas & Stall was moving west from Louisiana & they merged.
Daddy believes that this history is on a disc somewhere...


an example of a quarter
boat for rent
 in Houma

1945. Stall McDermott v The Southern Cross 

According to the appeal, a contract was entered Jan 8, 1945 to tow the quarter* boat Lorraine from Morgan City to White Lake, and the tow began Jan 9.  The superintendent was M.E. Drinkwater.  Gary would've been just a few months old.  
When the Lorraine sank, Stall McDermott sued the towing 
company and lost because it appeared that the Lorraine was not seaworthy (not the towing company's fault).  
Stall McDermott also lost the appeal. 

This decision is heavily referenced for delineation of contractual responsibilities and burden of proof.

"Mr Stalls first dragline Lorain #1 1936. --A.E. Drinkwater"
*A "quarter" boat provides living quarters for a work crew.




Who is Lorraine?


Did Mr. Stall name everything "Lorraine?" The writing on the back of the adjacent picture says his first piece of equipment was named that, too.

Gary says he lived on a Lorraine "with mom as cook in early years before we had a house in Plaquemine."

Below is an image of Art with "Lorain 95," and many more pics at the bottom of the page.


kids welcome onsite: Gary
en route to a dredging location

Dates:

  1. on or before 1932 Stall joins with McDermott
  2. 6 Dec 1933 Uncle Donnie is born in Missouri (but that doesn't mean M.E. was still there with the family).
  3. 1934-40 dates of the dust bowl. If they were already in Texas by 1932 at the latest, then they must have left before the dust bowl.
  4. 1936 picture of Mr Stalls first dragline Lorain #1... thinking this colored photo is not when it was built, but a nostalgic looking back at the old machine.
  5. Aug 1944 Gary is born in Franklin (the family had moved to Louisiana by then).
  6. 9 Jan 1945 Stall & McDermott's Lorraine (subject of the appellate case) sinks. M.E. Drinkwater is superintendent.
  7. Art with Lorain 95
    1946
     Stall & McDermott merged into J. Ray McDermott, & Co., of Delaware 


We moved around a lot


Didn't M.E. do significant work on the sulphur mines, too?  I guess I thought that was near Lake Charles, but when I look at Jesse's list of where she lived, there's no mention of that area:
Daddy could neither confirm nor deny this.  He said that a lot of projects were only 3 weeks long, so they would've worked on 1000s of projects over a career.
  • Floressant (1.5 yearsFlorissant is a northern suburb of St. Louis
  • North English (3 mobetween Des Moines & Iowa City in Iowa
  • Wheatland (3 mo) northeast of Iowa City in Iowa
  • Bell Blain (9 mo) Bell Plaine, Iowa according to Uncle Bud
  • St. Joe (one..   north of Kansas city
  • Knobnoster  ..winter)   east of Kansas City near Warrensburg
  • Heavener (3 mo) in Oklahoma, south of Fort Smith
  • Miss 2 (2 weeks) is this Missouri or Mississippi or something else?
  • St. Joe
  • Montserrat basically the same area as Knobnoster, near Warrensburg, where M.E. was born
  • Orange, Mo west of Springfield
  • Jesse's list of where
    she lived
    Edenburg northeast corner of Missouri
  • Montserrat
  • Lake Providence northeast corner of Louisiana
  • Montserrat
  • Havanna, Gentry Co., Mo northwest corner of Missouri
  • Montserrat
  • Port Allen, Louisiana, west of Baton Rouge
  • Woodland, La (Woodland Plantation is south of New Orleans on the river, north of Port Sulphur...the Woodlands, Tx of course, is north of Houston)
  • Breaux Bridge east of Lafayette
  • Houma southeast Louisiana
  • Montegue Montegut is southeast of Houma
  • St. Francisville north of Baton Rouge
  • Plaquemine west of Baton Rouge
The Breaux Bridge, Houma, Montegue group is off to the side; not sure if I got the right placement within the list. Maryville (where she was born) is not on the list; neither is Warrensburg, where she & M.E. were married.  And where is Franklin on the list (where Gary was born in 1944)?




This is a map I put together of Jesse's list of places she lived... if it looks confusing, I guess that's the point.



More Pictures of the dredge Lorain 95

Any idea who these people are? George Thompson was the black gentleman

George Thompson, __ & __
Art & George Thompson

George Thompson from Plaquemine


George Thompson, Melvin Chapell
(Jesss's cousin), ___ & M.E.